Stand Up for Sex Workers’ Rights: How Bills Could Impact the Industry in the Netherlands
Sex work has long been a part of Dutch society, but despite the Netherlands’ reputation for progressive policies, sex workers continue to face challenges. Ongoing legislative changes have the potential to impact the safety, rights, and livelihoods of sex workers across the country. It’s essential for Dutch citizens to stay informed and actively advocate for…
A day in the life of a Stripper vs an Escort: What really goes on behind the scenes?
Have you ever wondered what it’s like to be a stripper or an escort? Although they both work in the sex industry, the daily life of each of them can be very different. There are similarities too. For instance, they both use their sensual power to make money, they both have great communication skills to…
Secrets of a Six-Figure Escort: How Bookkeeping Empowers Me
The financial and time freedom of being our own boss is incredible. But let’s be real: having financial freedom means being tuned into our personal and business finances. A.k.a.: bookkeeping. Keeping track of what we’re spending and what we’re making in our businesses. Some businesses outsource bookkeeping. Even though I have enough money to outsource…
Emotional Well-being for High-Class Escorts: Navigating Toxic Clients and Maintaining Self-Care
Today, I’m diving into a topic that’s close to my heart: emotional well-being. How do I manage stress and set boundaries while navigating the ever-changing waters of the adult industry as a high class escort? Well, that’s what I’m going to be sharing with you today. Introduction For all the criticism we get, being an…
Red Flags and Gut Feelings: Why It’s Crucial to Fire Problematic Clients
Firing clients is an important tool to have as a sex worker. I’ll tell you a story about why I say that. I had a client who came to DC to see me for an overnight. He had a great time, but there was something off about him I couldn’t quite put my finger on….
6-Figure Sex Worker Teaches You The Basics Of Client Relationship Management
I’m Leijla Foss, a 6-figure sex worker and business coach. And you need to know about one thing I do to make more money. It’s called CRM, aka Client Relationship Management. CRM stands for Client Relationship Management. If you’ve heard of Salesforce, you’ve heard of CRM software. Salesforce is a paid software. I use a…
FEMINISTS AND SEX WORK: WHAT YOU SHOULD CARE ABOUT
I didn’t really know what to expect when I started stripping. It takes some digging to find truthful information about what the adult industry is like and, for someone who grew up in the conservative countryside of a religious country, that information was never really accessible. The only thing I thought I knew was that…
FINDING LOVE AND BUILDING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AS A SEX WORKER
It was a hot summer and I was working in a city two hours away from Berlin. The strip club and the dancers’ accommodation were located in the industrial area, and there wasn’t much to do besides hanging out in the car park, smoking one cigarette after the other, waiting for the evening to come…
THE (NOT SO) GLAMOROUS LIFE OF A STRIPPER
I am sat in the corner next to the bar, letting my back sink into the couch, my legs spread open. I stopped pretending for the night; I am just waiting for the manager to send me home. I stare at the ashtray and count the crumpled butts accumulated in a smelly pile sprinkled by…
BUT WHAT IS YOUR REAL NAME?
It’s gotten pretty late in the morning. The bartenders are wiping the tables and emptying the ashtrays, but my customer hands me more cash to extend the private dance. He is a local and his flat is just nearby – I know it for a fact because he told me nine or ten times. I…
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